For two people, one shared life

How to Plan Your Life Together Without a Shared Spreadsheet

The easiest way to plan a shared life is one shared item at a time, with both people opting in — not a project-management tool neither of you enjoys opening. Trips, projects, goals: most couples end up planning them separately, even when they’re building the same life.

The real Circle screen on iPhone, listing Mom, Brother, Best friend, and Daughter, each with a one-line note of context.

The real Circle screen — shared people, shared context

How Delia handles this

Shared Horizon items — mutual opt-in, one item, two perspectives. Shared Memories capture the same moment from both sides. No project-management software required.

Nothing is shared without both people explicitly agreeing to it, every time. See the whole list, if you want it →

One email when she launches. Nothing else.

Long distance from someone else who matters too?

Questions people actually ask

What’s the easiest way to plan a shared life without a shared spreadsheet?

One shared item at a time, with both people opting in — not a project-management tool neither of you enjoys opening.

Is anything shared automatically between two people?

No — nothing is shared without both people explicitly agreeing to it, every time.

What’s a Shared Memory?

It captures the same moment from both sides — the same feature used for staying close to family at a distance.