The Calendar

The Dates She Remembers, So You Don't Have To

Mention a birthday, an anniversary, a date that matters, once — and Delia keeps it. No reminder to set, no app to check. The Calendar is where she shows you what's ahead, plainly, including the dates that are hard, not just the easy ones.

The real Calendar screen on iPhone, showing upcoming dates: Mom's birthday, Father's Day, an anniversary, and Maya going back to college.

The real Calendar screen — the dates that matter, including the hard ones

What it actually does

Once you've told Delia about a date, she holds it and mentions it when it arrives — a birthday, an anniversary, the first Father's Day after a loss. This isn't a project-management tool with checkboxes and deadlines; it's closer to how a person who knows you would bring something up at the right time.

In her own words

Exactly what she says the first time you open this tile — spoken aloud, once, then never repeated unless you ask her again.

This is your calendar — the dates that matter to you, gathered in one quiet place.
Add a birthday, an anniversary, a day you don't want to walk past unnoticed. You can put it here yourself, or just mention it to me in our conversation and I'll keep it.
When one of your days comes round, I'll say something. There's nothing for you to keep checking — I'm watching it so you don't have to.

You choose what she marks — nothing is inferred from your phone or your calendar without you telling her first. More on how this works →

One email when she launches. Nothing else.

Facing a harder season right now?

Questions people actually ask

Do I need to set reminders myself?

No — mention a date once and Delia keeps it. No reminder to set, no app to check.

Does she only track the easy, happy dates?

No — the Calendar shows what’s ahead plainly, including the dates that are hard, not just the easy ones.

Does she pull dates from my phone automatically?

No — you choose what she marks. Nothing is inferred from your phone or your calendar without you telling her first.